SEX IS MORE THAN INTERCOURSE , BY IT VERY NATURE IT IS A BONDING EXPERIENCE

“he speaks to me with intense anger. Thirty minutes later, he says he is sorry and asks me if we can make love. He says. ‘let me show you how much I love you.’ he thinks that having sex will make everything right, well, he is wrong, I can’t have sex with a man who has verbally abused me”- one wife said.

“if I had known that helping my wife in the kitchen was sexy for my wife, I would have been doing that twice a day-morning and evening”- a husband once said.

According to Gary Chapman

Males and females are different, not just their physiological differences but also different in their sexuality. What is heavenly for one may be hell for the other, what pleasure you may not pleasure her.

While men focus on intercourse, women focus on relationship meaning to a lady, it is only a healthy and intimate relationship that leads to sex.

To some ladies, foreplay is more important than the actual act of intercourse itself. It is your tender touches and kisses that brings her to the point of desiring intercourse. Rushing to the finish line immediately often make her feel violated.

It is sexual abuse when one forces a particular sexual act upon their spouse, it ceases to be act of love. To violate the principle of mutual agreement of a particular act of sex is to sabotage mutual sexual satisfaction.

Sex is more than intercourse, by it very nature, sex is a bonding experience, unites both parties in the most intimate ways. If intercourse is viewed only in a way to relieve sexual tension or to experience a moment of sexual pleasure, it ceases to reach it designed purpose.

Finally, communication is the key to unlock sexual fulfilment. in a world and generation filled with explicit sex talk, I wonder why couples shouldn’t be able to talk about their sexual life together. Learn to talk about what sexual act is pleasurable to you or frustrating to you, sexual act that disgust you and turn you off, Sexual acts that gives you pleasure and turn you on.

I feel you should know this before saying “I DO”

GOOD MORNING