We are looking for a few good men, not a few perfect men.

 Where we grew up often affect who are but we should not let it determine what we become. 

I as a case study had a very difficult life as a child, though lived with my parents for years but life was not fair to me. My parents were poor i mean very poor and at the same time with 9 children and poverty made him a very humble man. It was not easy copping, i struggled on my own to get most of the things i wanted until i clocked 15 years, then i decided to go and look for a better life. On 8th of September 2008 i left for Lagos to stay with my uncle with 4 children, i will not call my self house help then because every member of  that family was and still good to me, i became happy hoping that i will finally find a good life. They saw me through college and willing to see me through university as well.

Then on 1st of November 2013, my poor father died living my siblings and mother empty handed, I was sad because i loved him. But my uncle consoled me and promised to do anything my father would have done for me.
I became happy again after a while until 16th of January 2016, that my very uncle that i have taken as a father had an accident along with his wife and a daughter and they all died the same day.
But here i am today still striving hard to survive.

So Stop and think about that for a moment. Did you have a great Dad, a crappy Dad or like most of our boys… no Dad? Did you have a mentor/role model when you were a teenager, or were you left to figure out manhood on your own? Did anyone really listen to you when you were a teenager? Do you remember what kind of man you wanted to be when you were a teenager? Are you that man today?


Never let all these weigh u down stand up and move on, in as much as we need people to kick off, the only man stopping you is you and no body but you.

We are looking for a few good men, not a few perfect men. We are looking for men willing to admit they are not perfect: men willing to share the truth about the struggles all men face: men willing to join our community of boys and men on a shared journey to be the best men they can be.