What should I do when my girlfriend wants to marry another person under family pressure but still tells me she loves me and cries for me? By BASSI

If she 'wants' to marry another person, and can't fight for you or this relationship, then you shouldn't be bothered by her crying or wailing either! She's made her mind that when the time will come, she will leave you for someone else.

She's crying right now in front of you, because right now she hasn't met that 'someone' and she is just losing this relationship which is making her cry, other than that she's alright and fine! The day she will be introduced to that arranged-marriage guy, she will be okay, fine and happy, and she will happily do all the ceremonies and get married too! She's just living life on her convenience. Till the time you were her boyfriend, till the time she was using you for dates and gifts and money, she used you and when she thought that now this relationship is demanding a lot of patience, fights and courage, she backed out and chose the easy path - get married to someone of her parents' choice, avoid the fights and avoid taking a stand, and lead an easy "happy-go-lucky" life and leave you saying that she has no courage to fight!

Believe me - nobody can force you into anything in your entire life! And if she loves you that much, ask her can't she fight for you? Can't she die for you? If my parents ask me to marry someone else other than my boyfriend, I will ask them to kill me, because my life with someone else will anyways be a lifetime of compromise which I'm not ready to do, and it's worse than death! And I'll rather choose the better option which is death if they can't get me married to the person of my choice. That is my stand. And I believe if I can take this stand - so can everyone else! And those who say that they have been forced into marriage - I don't understand one thing, did your parents tie you up in chains and ropes, gagged your mouth and forced you to walk around fire seven times with a stranger? No! You looked damn happy in your fucking wedding photos that you put on Facebook with a hashtag of 'eternal love' so stop asking for sympathy and pity! You are solely responsible for breaking your own relationship.

And after this, I will say only one thing - that Karma takes care of such bitches and bastards who break relationships for stupid reasons :) So good luck for your life ahead, don't worry you will find an amazing person someday, better than your girlfriend, and that day you will realize - why it never worked out with your girlfriend - because it was simply not meant to be :) She does NOT deserve a person like you, so relax - you will get a better person someday!

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